A Group Counselor tells how Do Tell creates a supportive environment
As a group counselor, I appreciate this game because it is a useful and intelligent therapeutic tool. It allows the players to open up in a safe and supportive environment and discover in themselves and each other aspects of their aliveness otherwise hidden in shame or shyness. Cards can be sorted out for specific groups and provide a more theme-targeted approach. I really think it is a valuable addition for explorative or healing purposes. submitted by Françoise Bourzat, M.A.
Words from a client who has played Do Tell as suggested by his Therapist
How has playing 'Do Tell' impacted me? Probably the biggest impact has been that I have become more comfortable with revealing things about myself. Before playing with the other couples, I was very anxious and concerned about how I was going to do. After playing with them, hearing their responses and seeing them perform, it made it much easier for me. I realized that we're all different and there is no right answer or action. The other thing I realized is playing 'Do Tell' created an environment that allowed me to connect with everyone, because of what they revealed about themselves and what I revealed about myself. Playing it is also fun. Others can laugh about what I do or say, and I can laugh about what others do and say.
My wife and I have used the cards to initiate conversations, which is a very good way to know her better, and to connect. After responding to the question on a card, we've gotten into longer conversations about the subject, and I sometimes learn that her view is not what I thought, or her view has influenced my view. submitted by Marvin J., SF